To improve my performance as a father, and help other fathers improve theirs, I will:

• Think deeply about what I want most for my kids.
• Decide on what I need to do to help my kids become the people
  they should be.
• Put my kids’ needs before mine.
• Honestly assess my current performance as a father.
• Decide on whatever changes I need to make to be a better father.
• Do what I need to do to make these changes.
• Partner more effectively with my wife in giving my kids what
  they need.
• Stand up for the importance of fatherhood in my family, community, and society.
• Support other fathers in understanding and fulfilling their responsibilities.